Colic and Reflux

Family Health Diary

What is Colic & Reflux?

Colic is when a baby cries for several hours a day and there is no obvious cause. It usually happens at the same time of day or night between the age of six weeks and six months. Often the baby draws their knees up and is hard to comfort. Approximately 20% of babies suffer from this.

Dr Kate Baddock, chair of the GP Council, says that colic is the waves of pain associated with distension of the bowel – usually with air.

Reflux, on the other hand, says Kate, is the movement of fluid, food and sometimes acid into the oesophagus. “Babies are born with a short, wide oesophagus so milk refluxes easily and sometimes copiously. This results in spilling.”

More than half of all infants experience reflux symptoms to varying degrees.

 

What Causes Colic and Reflux?

There are many ideas on what causes colic and reflux. Above all, the cause and severity can differ widely. It helps to look at all options with Plunket or your midwife, your GP, and complementary health professionals such as naturopaths and osteopaths.

Plunket and natural health professionals tend to agree that a baby’s digestive system is immature and can sometimes have trouble digesting foods. If this is combined with not enough winding, ie. burping, then the baby can experience pain and discomfort. Fortunately there are ways to help reduce the symptoms of colic and reflux.

 

Rule of 3 – How to Know if it’s Colic

Colic is often defined by the “rule of three”:  crying for more than three hours per day, for more than three days per week, and for longer than three weeks in an infant who is well-fed and otherwise healthy. Colic doesn’t last forever but for some parents it can feel like it. It typically starts from around 2 – 3 weeks old, reaching its peak around 6 weeks old, and then tapers off by 3 months of age.

 

Diet & Other Contributing Factors

Certain foods can trigger reflux or colic. If breastfeeding, this relates to the food a mother eats or drinks.

“Dairy foods can affect some babies while others are affected by so-called gassy foods such as onions, broccoli and beans,” says Allison Jamieson, a clinical advisor at Plunket. “Some others can be affected by spicy foods, while other babies are not – every child is different.”

Mothers can test whether a certain food is affecting their baby by cutting back on it but need to ensure their own nutritional needs are being met. A healthcare professional, such as a Plunket nurse, can help by suggesting alternative foods that a mother can consume to meet her own needs as well as her baby’s.

Rebekah Paddy, a naturopath and director of Mother-Well Holistic Health clinic in Auckland, agrees that dairy is a major culprit. She usually suggests that mothers avoid coffee, chocolate, alcohol and dairy for two to three weeks to see if this makes a difference.

“If not breastfed, the baby’s formula needs to be looked at. Often using a lactose-free formula can reduce wind build-up,” she says. It is important to get advice from an infant health specialist if changing formulas.

Rebecca says there can be a number of other different causes for colic and reflux, such as babies having had their digestive ability affected by being born by C-section (thereby missing out on good bacteria in the birth canal) or because the mother was on antibiotics during pregnancy or while breastfeeding. Again, this can mean more wind and pain in a baby’s gut. Probiotics for both mothers and infants can help counteract this.

 

Gone With The Wind

Almost every health professional agrees that babies who are not winded enough can suffer from colic or reflux.

Philippa Murphy, a postnatal liaison educator who has also worked as a maternity nurse, says all levels of reflux are formed by an overabundance of wind or/and feeding imbalances.

Her book BabyCues – Prevent and Remedy Colic, Reflux, Lactose and Dairy Overload supports and guides parents through winding and other techniques. Philippa says she focuses on winding as she believes many parents do not have enough knowledge in this area. She suggests that parents should be winding based on the age of the child: a 0-2 week-old baby should burp five to ten times after a feed, a 3-8 week-old baby should burp 15-20 or more times and an 8-12 week-old baby should burp 20 times or more.

“Parents obviously found it unusual at first but the results spoke for themselves,” says Philippa.

In regard to feeding imbalances, Philippa says a baby may be getting more lactose (milk sugar) than they can cope with in one sitting, which creates gas pains. Unfortunately, a parent will often misread the signs and feed an agitated baby again, thereby worsening the problem.

She believes that balanced feeding practices and the optimum releasing of wind equals long periods of deep sleep for babies (ie. longer than one 45-minute sleep cycle). This deep developmental sleep is important for all babies in the early stages of life.

Treatments for Colic

Although there is no cure for colic, there are several strategies that may help to alleviate the symptoms. These may include providing the infant with a pacifier, swaddling the infant, using white noise to help the infant relax, and using gentle rocking or swinging to soothe the infant. It is also important to ensure that the infant is being fed properly and to follow any recommendations provided by a healthcare professional.

There are several treatments available like drops and powders that can help soothe babies tummy. Always consult with your healthcare professional before administering an over the counter medicine to your baby.

 

Cranial Osteopathy & Infant Massage

Other options to try are cranial osteopathy, which has been gaining popularity. Osteopath Julia Griffiths says that some babies have reduced neck movement either from uterine position or a difficult birth. Cranial osteopathy focuses on age-appropriate soft tissue release around the head, so the baby can have the necessary relaxed posture for swallowing and winding.

Infant massage is another option that you can do yourself to help to relieve your baby’s trapped wind. Plunket Parent Centres sometimes have affordable infant massage classes.

 

Coping With Colic – Survival Tips For Parents

Dealing with a colicky baby can be one of the most exhausting challenges for any parent—whether it’s your first time or you’re adding to a busy household. The constant crying can push anyone to their limits. Before you head to your local Kiwi clinic or doctor, try a few of these helpful tips to soothe both your baby—and yourself:

1. Share the Load – If you have a partner, take turns caring for your baby. Alternate nights or divide duties during crying spells so no one parent bears the full weight. Teamwork is key.


2. Step Away When You Need To –
Endless crying can be overwhelming. If you’re feeling close to breaking point, it’s okay to put your baby safely in their crib (lying on their side) and take a short break—just 15 minutes can help reset your nerves. A hot cuppa and a biscuit can work wonders.


3. Catch sleep whenever and however you can –
When you’re dealing with colic, sleep becomes a precious (and rare) commodity. Try to nap when baby naps—even if it’s just for 20 minutes. If you have a partner, friend, or family member who can watch baby for a couple of hours, take the opportunity to lie down. Sleep debt adds up fast, and even short bursts of rest can help you function and feel more human.


4. Reach Out for Support
– Colic isn’t just tough on babies—it’s tough on mental health, too. If you’re struggling, please talk to someone. Whether it’s a friend, family member, or mental health professional, you don’t have to carry the stress alone. PlunketLine is a great resource and they’re always there to listen.

Helpful Resources for Parents


PlunketLine (0800 933 922)

Free advice and support from Plunket nurses, 24/7. A lifeline for those middle-of-the-night moments.


Crying Over Spilt Milk – cryingoverspiltmilk.co.nz | Facebook

Gastric Reflux Support Network NZ for Parents of Infants and Children Charitable Trust

 

Healthline (0800 611 116)

A free service staffed by registered nurses. They can offer medical advice and let you know if you should see a doctor.

 

Depression Helpline (0800 111 757 or text 4202)

If the stress and exhaustion are getting too much, this helpline is there to support your mental health.

 

Parent Help (0800 568 856)

A free parenting helpline offering support, strategies, and someone to talk to.

Kids Health – kidshealth.org.nz

Parent support groups and services in Aotearoa New Zealand

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